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Sleep Consultants Secrets Revealed

Updated: Nov 7, 2023


With the abundance of information available on baby sleep habits and how to improve them, it can be overwhelming to know where to start. However, regardless of your child's age, these are the essential tips that I always begin with. Whether your baby is four months old or four years old, implementing these sleep secrets can have a significant impact on improving your child's quality of sleep.

Baby Sleeping

Yes, there is indeed a science to getting your baby to sleep. Here are some tips from me that can help you navigate the world of baby sleep

 

Put these into place and you’re on your way to your whole family getting the rest you need!


1. Create an Optimal Sleep Environment

Setting up a conducive sleep environment is crucial for your baby's restful sleep. Regardless of your child's age, these factors can significantly impact the quality of their sleep.


  • Invest in high-quality blackout curtains to ensure complete darkness in the room. It took me a few tries to find curtains that truly blocked out sunlight, but once I did, it made a world of difference. We experienced fewer early wake-ups, and I'm confident that the absence of sunlight played a role. Blackout curtains offer multiple benefits for your baby's sleep, such as promoting longer and more restorative sleep.


  • White noise sound machines often go unnoticed on baby wish lists, but they play a crucial role in creating a soothing sleep environment. Babies are accustomed to the constant sounds in the womb, and having a white noise machine can help replicate that familiar noise. Not only does it provide a comforting background sound, but it also helps mask any disruptive noises from siblings, pets, or outside distractions. As your baby grows, the sound machine can continue to provide a consistent and calming ambiance for their sleep routine.


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2. It's All About Eat Play Sleep

As a baby sleep consultant, one of the most common challenges parents face is trying to eliminate nighttime nursing for their babies.


Did you know that we all wake up multiple times during the night? The difference is that we have developed the ability to soothe ourselves back to sleep without even realizing we woke up.


For babies, the issue arises when they are consistently fed to sleep. They become reliant on nursing to fall asleep and, as a result, require the same feeding to return to sleep when they wake up during the night. This can create a sense of confusion and disorientation for them, as they may feel like they are in a completely different sleep environment.


It's common for babies to fall asleep in their mother's arms or while nursing. However, when they wake up in their crib, the environment feels different, which can lead to confusion and difficulty falling back asleep.


By implementing the eat play sleep routine, you can avoid creating a strong association between nursing and sleep. This routine involves feeding your baby, engaging in playtime or other activities, and then putting them down for sleep. This helps them learn to fall asleep independently without relying on nursing.


By starting this routine early on, you can prevent the need for sleep training methods later on. Breaking the feeding to sleep association from the beginning sets a solid foundation for healthy sleep habits in the long run.



 


Eat Play Sleep


3. Establish a routine that works for you

Establishing a regular routine can greatly contribute to your child's sleep success and minimise bedtime struggles. Children thrive when they have a sense of predictability, so having a consistent routine can create a feeling of safety and security.


However, it's important to note that a routine doesn't have to be rigid or identical every day. It can involve following the eat play sleep pattern during the day, as well as having a consistent nap routine and bedtime routine in place. This allows for flexibility while still providing structure and familiarity for your child.


Creating a consistent routine can have a significant impact on your child's sleep and help prevent bedtime battles. Children feel more secure when they know what to expect, so having a predictable routine can provide a sense of stability.


It's important to remember that a routine doesn't have to be rigid or exactly the same every day. You can incorporate the eat play sleep pattern during the day and establish consistent nap and bedtime routines. This allows for flexibility while still providing structure and familiarity for your child.



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4 Consistency

Consistency is crucial when it comes to establishing a bedtime routine for your baby. By following the same routine every night, you create a familiar and predictable environment that signals to your baby that it's time to wind down and prepare for sleep. This can help them relax and transition into a peaceful slumber more easily.


5 Awake Windows

Do they make a difference?

Consider this scenario: if you took a nap at 6 PM, would you be able to easily fall asleep for the night at 9 PM? Most likely not, unless you were extremely tired. The same principle applies to your baby's wake times or wake windows.


Understanding your baby's wake times is essential for promoting healthy sleep patterns. Just like adults, babies have a limited window of wakefulness before they become overtired. By being aware of these wake times and ensuring your baby gets the right amount of sleep during the day, you can help them establish a consistent sleep schedule and avoid unnecessary fussiness or difficulty falling asleep at night. Downloadable Sleep Needs Chart


Babies and toddlers, just like adults, need a certain amount of awake time before they can settle down for a nap. The duration of this awake time will vary depending on your child's age, but it generally falls within a specific range.


Even a small difference of 15 minutes in awake time can significantly impact the quality of your child's nap. Putting them down too early may result in an under-tired state, leading to a shorter nap. On the other hand, putting them down too late can cause them to become overtired, making it more difficult for them to fall asleep and stay asleep.


If your baby consistently takes short naps, it may be helpful to evaluate their awake time before each nap. Keep in mind that younger children are typically more sensitive to wake times, so it's important to find the right balance that works best for your child's age and individual needs.


Improve your sleep with my customized sleep training plans! Whether you have a baby aged 6 months to 2.5 years, I can guide you through the process of establishing daily routines, creating sleep schedules, and implementing effective sleep training techniques. Say goodbye to sleep associations that no longer serve you and hello to better sleep for the whole family. Check out my plans here to get started on your journey to better sleep.


 

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